Why don’t I post my kids on social media? Myriad of reasons. #1 reason: They are not old enough to choose it. When will they be old enough? TBD. #2 reason: Most child pornography is created from social media images. Look it up, and prepare to be disgusted & horrified. #3 reason: Their life is not mine to share. Sometimes … Read More
Parenting as ancestral healing
If we can welcome the full authentic expression of a child, we break any and all ancestral patterns of abuse. Instead, we are creating a legendary legacy of love. This is a gift to the next seven generations. Can you show a child that she is loved and welcomed while she is bouncing off the walls giggly, silly, joyful AND/OR … Read More
Motherhood is a spiritual practice.
After my first baby was born I still tried to maintain my morning practice. LOL. For me, after having children there was no “sitting in meditation.” There is very little solitude or silence, no tea ceremonies, no elaborate rituals all to myself. There is only presence. There is only devotion to my family. There is only learning from my teachers … Read More
Two self-care necessities (they are not what you think!)
I have a very important question: When was the last time you woke up completely rested…or the last time you totally lost track of time and lost yourself in the joy of play? I hope your answer is “yesterday” or “this morning”! But if the answer is that you don’t remember, let’s explore. Children lose themselves in the bliss of movement … Read More
Calling AI renderings “art” dishonors our ancestors and our creator
There is no such thing as AI art. To call AI renderings “art” is blasphemous because humans are made in God’s image while robots are contrived, unnatural, artificial. According to its definition, ART requires consciousness. Imagination. Humanity. ART comes from the hearts, imagination, consciousness, and hands of human beings. It has since the beginning of time. Anything that has gone … Read More
Entering the MOTHER phase of the women’s lifecycle is only possible for actual mothers
There are people teaching that women can enter the women’s lifecycle phase of MOTHER without becoming an actual mother. They say that it is metaphorical, archetypal. It’s simply not true. In fact, it’s pandering. It occurs as tip-toeing around—avoiding “offending” non-mothers. You can not enter the MOTHER phase of the lifecycle of WOMAN without becoming an actual mother to a … Read More
Don’t make a new year’s resolution. Do this instead…
Most people think that January 1st is the time to make a new year’s resolution, set their goals and intentions for the year, and have total clarity on what the year ahead “should” look like. But that might be the biggest myth when it comes to “goal setting” or “productivity.” I understand how it’s easy to follow that doctrine. Everyone … Read More
9 Signs you’re initiated as a spiritual adult
Initiation into adulthood requires that we heal our past and leave childhood behind and marks a rite of passage into responsibility in the community. This can mean healing trauma, or shifting co-dependent and dysfunctional behaviors that might be present in families of origin. However, initiation and rites of passage are missing in our society and most people do not mark … Read More
Pregnancy and birth as ceremony: Maiden to Mother
My experience in the Maiden to Mother rite of passage My first pregnancy & birth was a beautiful, challenging, and transformative rite of passage & spiritual experience. At times I felt frustrated + alone searching for advice. But not just any run-of-the-mill unsolicited advice or projections people so freely give to pregnant women….ick. So I became my own Wise Woman … Read More
Abortion debate is a waste of time and energy
Regardless of what abortion laws the feds pass, pregnancy is many things. It’s a gift from God, a co creation, a wild ride, a choice that is ultimately in a woman’s hands/body. Have you ever noticed roe v wade is and the debate has always been a mind bender? That’s because it’s a psy-op to trick you out of your … Read More